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Finding the light during Bereavement: How Diwali

can be a guide through bereavement

By Lord Dolar Popat

Bereavement is an inevitable part of our human journey. It’s a path each of us will
eventually tread. During these challenging times, it can be so easy to be caught up

in the sadness of the situation. However, Diwali, the Festival of Lights, reminds us
Hindus that there is hope. It offers us invaluable insights into finding light during our
darkest moments.

There are several messages we can take away from Diwali to help us with
bereavement.

A reminder that light trumps darkness. In the depths of bereavement, it’s essential to remember that grief, much
like the profound night, can be dispelled by the light of hope, cherished memories, and the unwavering support of

our community. Just as Diwali dispels the shadows from our homes, hope can illuminate the darkest corners of our
hearts.

Diwali brings families together and encourages community celebrations. It emphasizes the profound significance

of human bonds. In the face of grief, we must not forget the power of these connections. Our family and
community are there to offer their support and provide strength during the most challenging times.

During Diwali we often discuss renewal and rebirth. The exchange of gifts, the rejuvenation of homes, and the
wearing of new attire symbolize a fresh start. During bereavement, this symbolism offers us the possibility of
personal renewal. It encourages us to honor the memories of our dear ones by living our lives to the fullest.

As we celebrate Lord Rama’s triumph over adversity, we remember we can too. Grief may feel like an
insurmountable obstacle, but just as Lord Rama emerged victorious, we, too, can overcome the adversities that

come with bereavement. Healing may take time, but it is within our reach.

During bereavement, focusing on gratitude for the time spent with our loved ones and the precious memories

created can be a wellspring of hope. It allows us to cherish the moments we had and appreciate the profound
impact our loved ones had on our lives.

For a Hindu navigating the challenging waters of bereavement, Diwali carries a profound message of hope. It is

not merely a festival; it is a guiding light that leads us from the shadows to the radiance of hope. Even when grief
appears all-encompassing, we can draw strength from the age-old wisdom embedded in Diwali - the triumph of
light over darkness, the support of our loved ones, opportunities for renewal, the potential to overcome adversity,

and the power of gratitude. As we light our metaphorical diyas during the darkest hours of our lives, let Diwali
serve as a reminder that hope and healing are within our reach. In the deepest night, the light of hope shines the

brightest.

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